Class is back in session and now we’re giving you gay slang 201 congratulation on graduating gay slang 101 but if you haven’t you can always go back or take refresher course before tackling this next set of gay slang.
Top – In case you didn’t understand this is a male who likes to be on top during sexual intercourse. You might generally suspect that this will be the more manly of the two males but don’t perceive everything as that.
Bottom – A bottom is the opposite of a top, this means that they like to be on the bottom during sex. Once again don’t assume what they like based on what you would perceive them to be.
Versatile – They can be the pitcher or the catcher, top or bottom it doesn’t matter. Of course they can be a top versatile or bottom versatile where they prefer one but are willing to shake it up. Also known as the best sex partners to have. If you and your partner are both versatile you’ll have a lot of fun.
Cruising – Looking for sex, this could be out at a bar or online. No serious relationships here just fun, safe, one night stands. If you’re looking for a relationship stay away from cruisers or you may get hurt.
Vanilla – This is your average, romantic, sensual sex. It’s very affectionate and will most likely include mutual masturbation, oral sex, and anal sex. It’s your very relationship type sex and doesn’t include any kinks, fetishes or costumes.
Back Yard – In case you didn’t know or you couldn’t guess this refers to butt. It’s a pretty, straightforward way of thinking.
Banana/Meat – Take a wild guess, I’m sure you’ll know that this refers to a penis. Banana has been the ultimate phallic symbol for as long as I can remember and we’ve all heard the age old wisdom “don’t look somebody in the eye while you’re eating a banana” or maybe you want to. Who knows it could be fun.
Can/Buns/Corn hole/Exhaust Pipe/Eye – All these are referring to the butthole or the area surrounding it and all of these kind of gross me out. I mean the butthole isn’t a great place but they could have at least come up with better slang for it, right?
Do – This means oral sex, it can be used in a sentence such as do for trade meaning giving somebody homosexual oral sex. It’s kind of a weak term but it is one you should keep in your mind so you aren’t confused when you hear it.
Anilingus / Eat Jam – Also known as rimming, it’s pretty basic. This means that you are eating out the anus or orally stimulating it. It has become more popular… even Buzzfeed has done a video on it.
Bareback / Barebacking – This refers to unprotected sex. “breeding” is also a common term associated with bareback sex. At AllMale we strongly suggest using protection during your sexual encounters.
Of course, there is always the chance that slang changes from region to region but now you’ll have a gist of just a bit more and it may leave you less confused the next time you log into AllMale and you’re looking through bios and trying to find that special person.